Number two

Although we were lucky to have met such a great guy as Dan our first time out meeting anyone, we turned out to be as equally lucky to have met the next hot guy off AFF as well.   Unfortunately Dan had decided to try to be faithful to his new girlfriend and although we've stayed great friends with Dan, Lori no longer played with Dan.

A couple months after Lori stopped seeing Dan I asked her if she'd like to try meeting someone else.  She hesitated a bit but decided to give it another try.  Lori liked Dan quite a bit and he certainly turned her on, so when he decided to be only with his girlfriend he bummed Lori out quite a bit.   After some discussion though Lori was fine with it and totally ready to try again. 

We talked to Tom via email and scoped him out.  He seemed pretty good looking from his pictures and also seemed like a really great guy.  We gave him directions to meet us at a local bar and headed out.
After waiting for a few Tom showed up.   He was in some ways not as good looking as I had thought from his pictures but still a pretty good looking guy.  Lori didn't seem blown away by his looks, but she did say he was good looking and she thought he seemed like a great guy.

We spent the night talking and hanging out at the bar and decided to head to the next bar which was mch more fun (with dancing).   We hung out at this other bar for a while and decided to call it a night. 
Lori and Tom hung next to the car and kissed good night for quite a while, but nothing major happened.  There was definitely some touching going on, but not much more.

When we got home I expected Lori to say she liked him but didn't care if we met again, so when she said she really liked him quite a bit, I was a bit surprised but very excited.  The two of us had great sex talking about how she had to meet him again and fuck his brains out.

Tom wrote us again quite a bit and began texting Lori.  The more he texted her the more she was getting into it.  He'd text her naughty pictures and she'd send some back, though nothing too crazy.   About a week later Tom wrote us that he had to take a business trip and was going to stay at a hotel at the airport so it would be easier to catch a plane in the morning.  He wanted us to meet him there.  Lori was defnitely psyched.

The night came and we drove out to the airport and to one of the hotels and waited.  He was late and we had to wait in the parking lot, we decided to hit a bar across the street and get a drink.  After a couple quick drinks Tom texted Lori and said he had checked in, so we rushed back and headed up.

Tom met Lori at the door and the two of them kissed passionately.   This blew my mind because I could see a huge chemistry.  We came in and sat down.  We brought a small cooler so we broke out a few beers and just hung out and talked for a few.  Lori sat on the bed with Tom, I sat on the bed across from them.  They didn't seem to be getting anywhere and I wasn't sure if it was me or not, so I finished my beer and headed to the bathroom.  I didn't close the door and I after I peed I noticed I couldn't hear any more talking. I walked to the bathroom doorway and could see in the room mirror that Tom and Lori were on the bed making out.  Within a minute or two Tom had Lori's top off and was sucking her nipples. This always gets Lori going.  Lori quickly got Tom's pants unzipped and pulled out his cock.  Both of us were blown away, Tom had a HUGE cock.  It was only a little wider than average probably, but it was long.  Probably a good 8 or 9 inches.  Lori had never seen a cock like that in real life ... she quickly began sucking on it the best she could.

I stepped out of the bathroom and sat in a chair facing the bed.  By now Lori and Tom were in their own worlds and I could have stood on my head, neither would have noticed.  Within minutes both were naked and they were kissing and hugging passionately.   Tom pushed Lori down on her back and moved his head between her legs and began to lick her pussly like there was no tomorrow.  Lori was in heaven and close to cumming.   I managed to dig out my cell phone and snap a couple pictures, but unfortunately my phone is pretty shitty and the pics were pretty blurry, but I will post a couple anyway.

Lori came quickly and Tom moved up and sucked her nipples and kissed her again.  Lori grabbed Tom's huge cock and moved it to her pussy.  He slowly pushed and I could hear Lori moan ... defintely a moan she had never used with me.  Tom's cock just get going into her and filling her deeper and deeper and Lori kept on making incredible sounds to match.   Tom fucked Lori for quite a bit in that position, giving me a great view of his cock going in and out of Loir's pussy.  (a sight that I am definitely addicted to)

After a few somehow Tom flipped Lori on top of her and Lori began riding Tom's cock like she was a rodeo star.  I think I had an even better view this was of Lori's pussy getting pounded.  After a few they switched back and Tom fucked her missionary style again.  They fucked for a while until Tom pulled out and pulled off his condom and shot a load all over Lori's stomach and chest.   What an incredibly hot sight! 

I grabbed a towel from the bathroom and tossed it to Tom who cleaned Lori up.

They both laid together naked on the bed, talking, laughing, kissing and playing for at least another hour before Tom had to call it a night.Lori and I headed home but she kept saying how incredible it was and how much she wanted to see Tom again.

Over the next few months Lori and Tom would get together a few more tines, each time it was more passionate and hotter sex.  Each time however wound up being in the back seat of my car (Luckily I have a large comfortable back seat).  It turned out Tom was just starting to see someone as well and was torn between Lori, woh turned him on like crazy and another woman who he could actually be with in a full time relationship.   Unfortunately Tom chose his girlfriend and decided to be faithful to her.

Lori was pretty bummed, but Tom kept texting and sneaking away to see Lori whenever he could.  He would bring a good friend of his whom he trusted enough to tell what was going on, and they both would come out and hang at the bar.  Tom would then head to the car with Lori and the two would make love in the back seat.  Tom's friend and I actually watched one night, and we even joined in.  That was pretty wild, three of us on Lori in a car.  (but that's another story)

Tom finally wound up getting married to his girlfriend and having a child, but he still texts Lori every once in a while and tells her how much he'd love to see her again, but he unfortunately is a faithful guy (but they still sext).  

One good thing that did come of this is we became good friends with Tom's friend Matt.  He was quite handsome, rugged looking and hair down to his ass.  A real biker kind of guy, but a real sweatheart of a guy as well.   Matt and Lori did wind up playing a couple times, but even though there was a great friendship there, the chemistry wasn't quite there and Matt wound up meeting the love of his life.

Matt and his love attended our wedding ... along with many other friends. 

Let's say I was only one of six men that had been with my wife to be at my wedding.  It was a great wedding and that night nobody got to be with her ... the after party lasted until six AM and the only thing Lori had on her mind was sleep!

There are actually many more stories between Tom and our wedding ... but those are for another posting.

We were definitely lucky to have met two great guys right up front from AFF.  I think had they both been failures Lori would have called it quits.   We also met a great guy through Tom as well.  Things were great so we definitely were eager to try again.   Unfortunately - that's when the good luck ran out (for a while at least anyway).

-r-

Butterfly Kiss

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AFF

We, or should I say she has met many differnt guys over the past few years.  Tonight she actually said "don't tell me the number".  I think she's a little embarassed ... lets say it's over twenty.  BUT, some were just one time playing and not actually making love.  Other's have been many times and starts of long term relationships (that for one reason or another fell through).  At this point, it doesn't seem to be important - I used to write every guy down and what happened and how many times they did it, etc.   Not anymore.  At this point, we're just looking for that one perfect guy for her, and I think right now - she has two guys who are both great for her,  one is a real fun single guy who can hang and date her (and wants to), the other is married but the passion is great and sex has been probably the best she ever had.   Both long stories that will be written about later ...

BUT the point of this article is we met both of these current guys on AFF.  (Adult Friend Finder)   She hasn't met everyone on AFF, she's met some guys at a bar - I'd say at least five or six we didn't meet on AFF, but the bulk are from AFF.   Ultimately we've had GREAT luck with AFF.  Most likely because we're extremely picky and I do a LOT of screening of anyone and everyone that writes us.   We don't meet with any intention of anything happening.  We actually tell people most likely nothing will happen.  If they're not cool with that, it's a good reason right off the bat to rule them out.  She's not looking for booty calls.  She wants more than just to be at some guys beck and call.  I think she wants them to be at HER beck and call AND wants them to hit on her and flirt and court and so on so forth.

One thing that is great about AFF is the amature videos.  If you're a fan of hotwife/cuckold videos it's a GREAT source of real video's.  Well worth the price of the membership. 

It took some time to get Lori to sit and watch video's with me and go through profiles and decide who to meet but eventually we started sitting and checking out profiles together.   Almost none of them she is interested, but occasionally someone will write that she thinks is not only hot, but sounds normal and classy.

We've looked at other sites but we haven't really found anything that seems to work for us like AFF.

I guess since we're looking for guys then it works for us, we hear that most of the women are fake, but we have no experience with that.  We've met a few couples from AFF, and they've been great.  Ultimately though, all the guys who have been hot passionate affairs have been from AFF.   So, I guess we're good with giving AFF two thumbs up ... but I'm sure there are other great sites, we just never ventured beyond.

Here's our profile pic.  I'd do her!  (if she let me!) LOL! :)

-r-

Recent Afternoon Delight with One of her Boyfriends!

The First FWB

After returning from Hedo Lori seemed like a new person.  Having such a GREAT time and doing things she'd never done before and in public no less, Lori came home with a whole new attitude that playing can fun and she didn't have to worry about what someone might think of her.  

We had been home for a couple months and I began telling her about a web site that I had been on for a few years called Adult Friend Finder (AFF).   She was somewhat interested, but also didn't want to go on and look or actively participate in finding someone to meet.  We did however talk about it quite a bit, about her meeting a hot guy and him becomming her friend with benefits.  

After a short period of looking online, I emailed a guy who had a great profile, looked really good and seemed very normal (and was single).   I sent the pictures to Lori and she was definitely interested.
After a few more email exchanges, we set a date to meet.

Friday night came and Lori was nervous but excited.  She dressed quite sexy and looked as hot as could be.  We decided to meet at a local bar that we didn't really know anyone at.  Lori and I sat at the bar, saving a stool next to Lori and waited.   Within a few minutes, a very handsome, blond hair, blue eyed six foot three guy in his late 30's arrived.   Lori knew it was him instantly and stood up to greet him.  When he approached, she reached out her arms and gave him a big hug.  Lori likes to hug, but in general she doesn't hug complete strangers.  I guess her being a little nervous and her being so attracted to him caused her to be so excited she couldn't resist.

The night went on and Lori and Dan talked away flirting and getting closer.  After about an hour and some drinks, we decided to hit a more exciting bar with a band.  I drove and Lori went with Dan in his car.  I pulled into the bar's parking lot behind Lori and Dan and watched for a few minutes as Lori and Dan began kissing.  After a few kisses we all went in.

The night seemed to fly by, with Lori and Dan talking, flirting and dancing.  The night ended and we walked out to the parking lot.  We stood by the car and talked some and one by one, the cars left leaving two cars in the lot.  I decided to go sit in the car and let those two kiss and say good night.  It was a warm and humid night and Dan and Lori leaned against the side of the car as I sat in the front seat.  I could watch them in the rear view mirror as they were kissing and Dan's hand were running all over her body.  

After a few more minutes Dan had Lori's shirt up over her boobs and Lori's hands were down Dan's pants.  Within another few minutes Lori had Dan's cock out and was sucking his cock in the middle of the well lit parking lot.  Lori moved the two of them over to the driver's side window and knocked on the window laughing and commenting because I had my cock out and I was stroking it.  Lori went back to sucking Dan's cock as it started raining. 

At this point I could tell Lori may have wanted to call it a night, BUT she also was so turned on and now the rain was putting a damper on their playing.   Dan opened the back door to the car and moved Lori into the back seat.  Lori laid back and Dan immediately pulled her tight jeans down.  Lori spread her legs and Dan dove in licking her hairless pussy.   Within a few minutes Dan moved up and had his pants down and was fucking Lori hard.  I sat in the front seat stroking my cock looking over my shoulder as my wife was moaning in extacy fucking this very hot guy and not even knowing I existed.

Within a few minutes Dan pulled out and came all over Lori's hot flat stomach and tits.  I came within seconds.  I dug out a box of tissues grabbed a few for myself and threw the box into the back seat.

We sat and talked for a few more minutes and Lori got out and kissed Dan good night. 

We saw Dan again multiple times, and Lori began seeing Dan on her own.  (some of the pictures on the home page are of Lori and Dan).    After a few months however Dan decided to be exclusive with another woman he was starting to date and Lori and Dan had sex only one other time after that.
All of us (including Dan's girlfriend) are all good friends and get together often (vanilla get togethers).

Looking back, I think how the first guy can definitely make or break a swinging/hotwife situation and we are SO glad Dan was her first.   He's still possibly the hottest guy she's ever been with.  Hopefully though we'll meet a hotter guy than Dan, but it will be tough.

-r-

When is it NOT fun and Games

After re-reading the posts I've put so far, I realize everything I've written is totally fun, no downside, no problems, so on so forth.   For us, we're lucky and we have such incredible chemistry and trust that we've had very little downside, however it doesn't mean there hasn't been tension.

One of the conflicting things I think for both of us is that I have this fantasy that Lori meets a guy who rocks her world, they get close, very close, she has extremely intense feelings and they have extremely incredible passionate sex on a regular basis, not to mention date, see each other without me, etc.  Out of that comes Lori's loss of desire to have sex with me.

We're both somewhat conflicted about this.  We both have talked about this while having sex and it's made us both pretty hot.  Certianly not the "no sex" between us part, but the fantasy of her being SO hot with another guy that she doesn't want it with me.  The other fun part of this is her teasing me about it.  For some reason, her telling me she's having so much fun fucking hot guys or one special guy that she really doesn't want sex with me give me an instant hard on.   Maybe it's because she's taking it all the way, maybe it's because you want what you can't have even more, or maybe I'm just messed up.  Either way - the teasing is a big part of it.

This scenario actual happened somewhat, even if it was only for a few weeks.  For those few weeks, I was I think a little nuts.  I was turned on beyond belief all the time and Lori was pretty hot and excited as well (and seeing her boyfriend a few times per week).  Her boyfriend is married and his wife pretty much told him to get as hot and heavy with Lori as he liked.  Awesome - Lori pretty much fell for him and I had never seen her have such incredible passionate sex.  His wife one day decided to withhold sex from him so that he'd save it up for Lori.   She mentioned this to me and I mentioned that I didn't have to withhold it, we pretty much didn't have sex very often anyway.  Somehow this lead to the conversation of her basically not wanting sex with me anymore because she was so into him.

This excited me like the first time I saw her kiss another guy, and yet it sort of scared the hell out of me, and of course turned me on like crazy.  My problem was, I couldn't tell if she was just saying this to keep it hot, or if she really meant it.  We didn't have sex for a few weeks - though Lori would either talk dirty to me while I did myself or we'd both do ourselves together while we talked about the situation.   Each time I was ask her to tell me the 100% truth and yet sometimes I didn't believe her.  I wasn't interested in hearing her say stuff just to get me off - and I think you'll find you will want the same thing after you've been doing this a while.
The truth is so much hotter.

Well, it turns out, Lori was just saying it at times to get me off, and not because she actually wanted to have sex with me right then, but because she figured we'd be having sex again some time soon and she didn't want to give that up.   I however couldn't tell if she was really telling 100% truth.  To this day, I'm still not sure because as she even admits for a couple weeks, she truly felt like she didn't want sex with me.

The problem was, I was driving her nuts, - I was also driving myself nuts with horniness - not having sex with her, not being able to have sex with her and her teasing me about it now and then put me over the top.  I found it difficult to sleep, instead I'd wake up horny as hell in the middle of the night and do myself, sometimes twice.

Right now - I think we may be on the verge of being there again, except for a different reason, Lori now has not only the boyfriend from that timeframe, but another one.  (and see's one other guy occasionally)  This is pretty much keeping her excited and satisfied and ... well, not much desire to fuck ol' hubby.   I honestly can't blame her ... she is having an incredible sex life, why bother with ones husband when you have two or three hot guys fucking you on a regular basis.   She doesn't however tease me (hardly ever) and we don't really talk about it ... but it's starting to creep back in, that desire to find out if she's 100% serious if she doesn't want sex with me.

So, this is definitely a downside - a catch 22.   I don't want to drive her nuts with it, but it drives me nuts not knowing. 

There are other downsides as well ... but I'll leave it at this for now. 

I'm not sure where it will lead - I honestly suspect at some point in the not to distant future we'll both agree that she doesn't really want sex with me anymore and we'll agree to stop.  It's absolutely crazy, and I have to admit, I could never understand that when reading about other guys (cuckolds).  I would ask myself, why would someone want that?  Especially when your wife is so HOT!   Weird, but now I think that's where this is going and it's turning me on.   It's definitely a progression.  If you're just starting out and going - THAT'S CRAZY ... I'LL NEVER DO THAT!  Just remember, that's exactly what I said!

-r-

Hedo

I had wanted to go to Hedo for many years, hearing all the wild stories, not really believing all of them of course, but still wanting to go and see if at least some of it was true.  Lori had never heard of hedonism (the resort) but any tropical resort where you could lay out naked sounded great to her.  Lori loves laying in the sun naked, so this clearly was going be a great trip for her.  Then I also started to tell Lori that other "stuff" goes on there, that it is frequented by swingers and we may actually see people having sex out in the open.  I told her it probably would be discrete, and I didn't suspect we'd see much, just a lot of drinking and probably people doing body shots naked on the bar.  This made Lori a little nervous, but she goes with the flow and didn't really worry, so we booked the trip.   May of 2008. 

The time came and we packed up and headed for Hedo III.  We arrived and while waiting to pass through customs Lori was looking around wondering who might be going to Hedo III as well.  In line in front of us were three very hot young women and Lori began to worry, not thinking she could compete with hot twenty somethings (which she could but she never believes it).  Luckily, the hot girls went another way and we were headed to our bus to Hedo with a bunch of regular folk.  On the bus we met a couple who were both friendly, very funny and loud.  (He reminded us of Larry the Cable Guy).  We would wind up hanging out with this couple and becoming friends.

We got to our room which was nice, it was on the clothing option pool called the quad.  (this wasn't the naked only side)  We put on our suits and ventured out into the pool.  Most people had suits, some women were topless.  We got a few drinks, didn't really talk to anyone so walked to an upper deck to lay in the sun.  As soon as we got up and saw no one on the upper deck, we stripped down.  About an hour later we both were bored.  We decided to go for a walk.  We eventually made our way to the nude side and decided to go in.  The nude pool was smaller than the quad, but it had a large attatched round hot tub and a swim up bar.
About 2 minutes into stading and checking it out, the guard told us to get naked or leave.  So we got naked.
We ventured down into the pool and the fun couple from the bus came up and greeted us. This was the beginning of one of the most fun weeks of our lives.  We never went back to the quad.

About 10 minutes into being there, the fun couple, Carla and Jim introduced us to quite a few people and dragged us into the hot tub.  We sat there arcoss from a young guy who was sitting up on the edge.  I decided to go get drinks, about a minute after I left, a woman came up next to the guy sitting on the edge of the hot tub and started to suck his cock.  This blew Lori's mind.  A minute later another woman joined in.  Lori just watched in awe.  One of the women started coming around the hot tub asking other women if they wanted to join in.  Carla said to Lori that she's protect her.  Lori passed on giving the blow job, but I have to assume that she will never forget that moment.

As the week went on, we spent day after day laughing, getting drunk, playing volley ball in the pool and meeting new people.  One of the people who started hanging around with us, Carla and Jim and a few other couples was a handsome lawyer in his mid 30's from New Jersey.  We started calling him "boy toy".  Not sure why, but it stuck.  He was all over Lori like white on rice.  One time he came up behind her while she was laying on a chair and just started playing with her tits, another time he came up and just laid right on top of her naked.  Lori was loving the attention and eating it up.

The 2nd or 3rd night, we were out at the piano bar with "boy toy" having some drinks and he and Lori were sitting on a bench toward the back of the bar.  I decided to go get us a round of drinks, but my nerves were so on edge, it was like the feeling you get rounding the top of that first roller coaster hill.  It's addicting.  I tried peeking through the crowd to see what they were doing, but I couldn't see, - I finally got my drinks and headed back to them and as I broke through the crowd, Lori and boy toy were passionately kissing.  This was the first time I saw her kiss another man.  It was HOT!  I was hooked.  I gave them their drinks and told them I had to hit the mens room, which I did, but on my way back, I stopped in a place where I could just watch as the two of them talked, and then kissed agian, and agian and got more and more passionate.

I finally came back and suggested we head out for a walk.  We left the bar and started walking toward the nude side to see if we could find anyone, but nobody was around.  We grabbed a couple more drinks and headed to the quad.  We stopped in our room and decided to go into the quad hot tub so we left our clothes in the room.  We got to the hot tub and the quad was desserted.  So the three of us hung on the edge of the hot tub and talked for a few.  I decided we needed 3 bottles of water and said I'd go to the room to get them, which was all the way across the pool.  I did go get them, but made my way through the pool and up onto the deck which overlooked the hot tub.  When I got up to the top and looked down, there was my girlfriend getting her pussy eaten by "boy toy".  I was SO hard.  I stood and just watched and stroked my cock.  This was amazing.  She was enjoying it so much, he was enjoying it, I was loving it.  Watching her with her legs spread and his head burried in her pussy as she moaned and moved her body was like taking a huge hit of some incredible drug.

This went on for probably about 10 minutes before a couple walked down along beside the hot tub and Lori pushed boy toy away.  (if this were today, I'm sure Lori would let him lick away while people watched)
I went down to the hot tub and gave everyone their water.  As soon as the couple left, boy toy went back to work on Lori's pussy, but now I was behind Lori, kissing her and rubbing her nipples.  It took about five minutes and Lori was cumming like crazy.

The three of us went back to the room, and Lori and boy toy laid on the bed, kissed a little but he could tell Lori didn't want to go any further.  She was just to nervous and inexperienced.  So boy toy kissed her good night and went on his way.

This was the only playing we did on our trip to Hedo, but it was incredible and it was what started it all. There are many more funny and crazy stories, but this one was the one that made Lori a hotwife, or at least a hotwife wanna be!

-r-