So Why Swing, Hotwife or Cuckold ...

Lori and I have discussed it many times with each other and with other people as well. I'm not exactly sure Lori even understands me completely to this day.  The biggest question I get from Lori is "How can you love me and want to see me with another man".

I have tried to explain this to her many times and in general what I try to get through to her is this.

I LOVE seeing her exited, seeing her happy, seeing her passionate and lustful.  In the beginning of our relationship, we did have the exitement, passion, lust and great sex.   Over the years, it has definitely cooled.  I still don't feel like I can get her exited and passionate about making love to me, even though sometimes we do have pretty great sex.   I also get turned on by seeing her turned on, and when she's just met a guy she really likes and just getting into kissing him, or making love to him, her excitement level and passion is through the roof sometimes.  THIS is what it is all about for me.  Seeing her have that passion and excitement.

I don't see how that would make her think I didn't love her.  The analogy falls apart in that, nothing happened to me or us.  We could still have great sex except, we don't seem to.  I think the chemicals that make sex great wear off after a while and you're left with just going through the motions.  I'd LOVE to do wild and crazy stuff with my wife, we just never seem to get there.  And, with Lori, this lifestyle I think is what keeps her interested in sex, otherwise, I think it she would still have sex with me, but it would be doing her wifely duties and it would be maybe once per week and it would be the typical, OK, lets screw, is it over yet, great. Thanks. (sometimes it's like that with us anyway)  That type of sex life isn't overly appealing to me and Lori isn't all that exited in that as well.

Somewhere along the line, we started masturbating together.  She'd lie next to me with her vibrator and we'd both do ourselves.  During this time, we'd talk about our fantasies and this lifestyle was always the fantasy. (or almost always the fantasy)  We decided to stop just talking about it and go do it.  We're glad we did!

So, maybe you understand that, - but a big question which still perplexes Lori is, why would I want to be a cuckold.  I'm not sure I even want that, and in the actual sense of the word, I already am.  She has sex with other men, I know about it and allow it.  But the general perception of what a cuckold is goes further.  It's like the kinsey scale, you can be mildly cuckold, or you can be full blown cuckold.   I'd say I'm a little more than mild, but definitely not full blown.

I have no interest in being degraded, I just love her being so into another guy, so turned on by him that she only wants to have sex with him.  We began talking about that and it seems to be the next logical step.  In this lifestyle, I think people always look for what's even hotter.  For me, her getting so into someone and denying me sex, or not wanting sex with me, for some reason turns me on like crazy!  Of course, then I want to have sex with her even more.  I'm not looking for her to just go, sorry, not interested in you anymore, I'm looking for more of a teasing situation.  I guess that's where the fun is in me, and that she does of course help me cum by getting naked with me, telling me how much she loves fucking her boyfriend and making me do myself.

We HAVE had this situation twice now, both with the same boyfriend, but it didn't last.  Each time things get difficult, usually it's me.  I don't think she has any problem with not wanting sex with me, but for me, I want to know it's the truth and not her just saying it.   The first time, it was totally believable, and I think it was the truth.  But we travelled back to our other house, and wound up making love and getting back to normal.
The second time, she was getting all hot and heavy with her boyfriend, we started talking about it again and she admitted she only wanted to have sex with him, BUT, I could tell she wasn't into him as much.  He was having some issues with his wife and pulling back, and Lori was geting frustrated with him.  She was definitely just saying it to get me excited, which just confused me.  The last thig I want is for her to not want sex with me because I just don't turn her on.  I want it to happen only because someone turns her on so much that's all she wants.

I'm sure we'll get there agian.  We just talked about it two nights ago (while doing ourselves), and she assures me she wants to have that hot passionate affair, one where she gets so into the guy that he's all she wants.
I agreed that I want the same thing for her.

SO, we'll see where it goes.  Hopefully soon I'll be writing about how she's so into him (maybe her current boyfriend even) that she stopped wanting it with me.

That would be hot!  We shall see.

There are definitely downsides to being in that position, maybe as many as the upsides, but I'll leave that to another post.

-Rich-

Girl on Girl

For the most part, Lori hasn't been interested in other women, BUT there's something about being around women who are flirty, fun, bi-curious and good looking.  Over the past few years of meeting wild women, starting with our first wild vacation (to Hedonism) Lori became much more open to kissing or touching a woman.  It is definitely all in fun and not any attempt at having something with a woman like she does with her boyfriends.

Not that guys really need that much encouragement to have their woman be as flirty and fun with other women as possible, but I think there are some that might write this off because their wife is straight. They shouldn't, believe me, it's a ton of fun all around and I think your wife will enjoy the flirting once she gets used to it. She actually may really love it and you'll wind up with a LOT more fun than you ever imagined. 

Over the past few years, we have had a couple minor encounters, and with each encounter Lori gets much more comfortable being with another woman. Somewhere along the way, Lori also began checking out other women and with some really hot women, there's defintiely a desire in her to play.

Over the past few weeks we've actually both been flirting with a very hot woman at a local club.  This woman actually has the same or even a slightly hotter body than Lori.  She has a slightly smaller tighter frame, not as nice of an ab section, but the same great ass, great legs, fantastic arms, and nicely sized (unfortunately fake) tits.  (She definitely has bigger tits than Lori)

This past Friday night, we wound up meeting up with her for a night out to see a local band.  We hoped but didn't expect to bring her home with us.  Both Lori and I had talked about it and Lori had mentioned one other time, if she were alone with her, she would have played.  Lori was definitely interested in playing with this woman.

The night finally came, we met up for drinks and to our disappointment the band somewhat sucked, but we however made the best of it.  We didn't dance much at all at first, and I don't dance that much anyway but Lori's the big dancer.  Over the course of the night we both flirted with her, and mentioned taking her home with us multiple times.  (I had flat out told her the previous week that we were serious about a 3-som with her, to my surprise, she said "let's go!".  Unfortunately we weren't alone and couldn't get away from the people we came with).  1:30 finally rolled around and the bar closed.  It didn't seem as if things would happen, Anne and Lori were hanging out talking with the staff as everyone left and no real mention of Anne going home with us.   I made a decision that I was going to make this happen.  I told Lori and Anne that I was going to leave and Anne would have to drive Lori home.   Neither really thought I was serious until I received a text a few minutes later asking if I was out in the parking lot, to which I could happily respond that I was now at home (we live close to the bar).  So, Anne and Lori followed.

We got home and made a few drinks, we didn't really need them we were all fairly hammered at that point, but we drank in order to add to the social setting.  From there, things are a little fuzzy, we could tell Anne was very open to different lifestyes, though she claimed she had never done anything wild, we didn't quite believe her. The conversation moved onto girl on girl and both Anne and Lori said it excited each of them.  That was all I needed, - I moved the two together and told them to kiss and they both happily obliged.  From there, shirts came off and Lori moved quickly to sucking Anne's tits.  This play lasted a while as the hands started moving down each others pants.  I reached down my wife's pants to find she was soaked!  Again, far more wet than she gets with me (there is definitely a theme here).  Anne noticed it too and commented quite a few times on how wet Lori was.  By now, all three of us were naked and we decided to move upstairs to the bedroom.

Lori and Anne played with each other for a bit, and I played with both of them.  This is when things went down hill (well for me at least).   I noticed I was losing my hard-on.  I couldn't believe it - I was incredibly turned on, everything felt fantastic, Anne was incredibly hot, and Lori had started telling me to fuck Anne.  This is the first time Lori had ever wanted me to fuck another woman.  I tried, but my dick just wasn't cooperating. I knew it had to be the late hour and the myriad of drinks/shots I had throughout the night. I decided to kiss down Anne's body and lick her perfectly hairless pussy. I licked and fingured Anne and within minutes she was cumming.  I made Anne cum three times before she rolled over to get me away from her pussy (which I then started kissing and licking her ass).   Anne LOVED that as well saying I was incredible.

Lori had reached into the night stand and grabbed her toy and started doing herself while I was licking Anne.
Once Anne had cum I had to bow out, I did have to piss and was still not getting hard, so I ran into the bathroom, which was attached to the bedroom.  I peed really quick and opened the door to find Anne sucking on Lori's tits while she fingered her pussy hard with two or three fingers and Lori had her toy on her clit.   I just stood and watched in amazement for a few minutes while Anne made Lori cum.

It was an incredible sight.  The first time I had seen Lori do anything like that!  I'm hoping it's not the last.

After Lori came, she still wante me to fuck Anne and she left us alone in bed.  Anne and I kissed and touched for a bit, but it was pretty evident that I wasn't going to get hard. (this was absolutely killing me!) Anne said it was probably partly the booze and partly the fact that this was the first time I was with another woman other than Lori. Anne promised me I would have another chance to fuck her again, but next time I need to be rock hard, and I plan on it! 

I'm honestly hoping things go great next time, because I suspect Anne could be the only woman I'm fucking, well, as long as she stays single I guess!  (Lori may still be not having sex with anyone other than her boyfriend, but that's a different story).

So I guess the moral of the story is, if you get a chance at that hot threesome - don't get shitfaced getting there!  There's nothing more frustrating than having your wife tell you to fuck another woman and not being hard! 
Keep it to two drinks and multiple orgasm's!

-rich-

In The Beginning

Lori and I met through work at a work party in Rhode Island.  We live two states apart and over one hundred miles away from each other, but somehow we found each other and instantly had a connection that we knew would last forever.   She was married, I was in a long term relationship.  Both of us were at the end of our relationships and needed to get out of what we were in.  We kissed the first night we met and have talked every day since.  That was over six years ago.

From almost day one, I told Lori I had done some pretty wild things.  She tried to convince me she didn't have a wild past, which for the most part she didn't, but I knew she had an open mind and a wild side.  She would say she didn't do anything crazy, then tell me how she would lie in the sun on her deck naked and masturbate knowing her neighbor was most likely watching.  Or that she picked up her husband at the airport wearing only a trench coat and at the terminal when he walked off the ramp, she opened her jacket flashing her completely naked body to him, and of course, all the other passengers getting off at the same time. 

So, I told her how I had been in threesoms, with two women and me, and with me, my girlfriend and another man.  She was VERY interested in hearing all about it.  I think I shocked her with some of the details, saying I had even fooled around with the guy.  We would both joke about her running for the hills.  She never did, and she's quite glad she didn't because she has had the time of her life.

As time went on, we would talk about our fantasies and of course I would talk about her being with another man.  I told her she just got out of a long term relationship and she needed to make sure I was the one, she should have some fun, sew her wild oats and act like she was single. She at first didn't know how to react, she was intrigued, but she also wondered how I could possibly have feelings for her and want her to be with other men.   For the most part, she would go along with the talk and enjoy talking dirty while we fooled around but didn't quite take it seriously.

Since we both lived two states away from each other, we would spend a lot of time emailing each other.  I must have sent her four or five emails per day.  Somewhere along the line, I started writing her dirty stories, most of which centered around her going out, meeting some hot guy and winding up sleeping with him.  She would usually sneak off at night (she still lived with her husband at that time) read the emails I wrote and do herself once or twice while reading my stories. Over time, the thought of her being with another man became less and less of a shock and more and more of a turn on to her.

When we were finally able to get away for time together and she was able to start coming up to my house for a night or two, or even a long weekend, I would bring her to some great clubs.  At first she dressed like any typical woman in her early 40's with kids (who play soccer).  She dressed cute but it just wasn't her.
I started buying her clothes out of victoria's secret or Frederick's of Hollywood, or I'd take her shopping to the mall.  All of the sudden her jeans were very hot, very tight, her tops were low cut and form fitting and just flat out sexy.  She went from two and a half inch heals to three and a half, four inches and even higher.  Lori began dressing sexy, doing her makup right and having that sexy air of confidence that men began to notice and she began to react!  This of course blew my mind and made me more excited than ever and feel even prouder to be with the hottest woman in the room.

It was clearly evident that Lori loved her new found sexiness and confidence, and I loved the way she looked, acted and dressed.  My wife to be was definitely starting to act like a hot woman and on her way to being a hotwife.

One night while I was at home and she was at home two states away, she went out with one of her single friends.  They bar hopped and were looking to just have a great time, but later as Lori told me, she was also looking to flirt and see what was out there.   I spoke to her on the cell and her and her friend were about to give up having been to two bars already both of which were busts when they tried one final club.  That was all I heard from her that night.  The next day Lori told me how she had met a very cute guy with incredible blue eyes, a sexy body and supposedly lots of money.  She flirted and danced and at one point, he held her from behind with his arms wrapped around her body, her arms holding his.  She stood on dance floor with him holding her, kissing her neck and finally her lips.  I think tht is when she became hooked.

Lori wanted to get "Mr. Blue Eyes's" (as we called him) number, but her friend came and dragged her out before she could, stating it was an emergency.  Lori never even said good night to him.  It turns out, her friend was acting completely slutty and wound up with guys telling her they're taking her home and having her way with her.  She decided it was time to split.

Lori and I talked many many times about Mr. Blue Eyes, how to find him and how much she'd love to see him again.   We never did see him again, but he probably changed her as much as any guy she's met.

Mr. Blue Eyes definitely moved Lori down the path to loving being with other guys.  She was definitely at a fork in the road and he pointed the right way.  This was back in 2007.  It's amazing to think how much has happened since then.

It took a LOT of just talking like there's nothing wrong with thinking about Lori being with another man, a lot of patience, a lot spoiling with gifts and freedom, and a lot of reassuring affection.  Everything above was completely the truth.  I loved Lori with all my heart.  Lori did have complete freedom and I loved spoiling her.  I think this must be an absolutely irresistible combination that no woman could ever resist.  It takes a lot of patience, a lot of love, a lot of spoiling and you really have to believe that all your fantasies are going to come true, it may take some time, but it eventually happens.

The next three plus years would be absolutely incredible and wild for both of us.

***
Rich

Monday, March 28, 2011

Usually Mondays suck.  They tend to be filled with conference calls, endless emails from the weekend and a general feeling of how much this job sucks and how I wish it were Friday.   That’s a typical Monday.   This Monday was anything but typical.   Every day at lunch, Lori goes downstairs to work out.   It usually lasts about an hour.  She rides the bike, does her ab work, lifts some weights, basically enough to keep her incredible body just as incredible as it has been since I met her.   Today, as she has for the past month or so now, she spends much of the time on the bike texting her new boyfriend.  I spend the time working through lunch usually.  

Lori's workout was shorter than usual as she emerged from the basement with a huge smile on her face and proceeded to tell me how her new boyfriend Mike had just heard from his wife that she was at her mom’s house (who was out of town) and she had fifteen minutes with her new boyfriend.  During those fifteen minutes Mike’s wife’s new boyfriend came twice.  The conversation then proceeded to how impressed Mike was that a sixty year old guy (he’s much older than her) could come twice in that time, and that he was incredibly turned on by the fact that his wife had just done that.   He couldn’t stand how turned on he was and he now wanted Lori to meet him at his wife’s  mom’s house so they could do the same.   Lori was still texting while she told me all this.  Fortunately, Lori couldn’t leave her work for that long and suggested that he come to our house instead  (we both work from home).  She gave him one condition only, that he had only ten minutes to cum.  He agreed.

Lori immediately ran up to shower and get dressed.   I worked, waited and within a half hour or so, she came back downstairs to where we work wearing a pair of hot pink short shorts and a cut off tee shirt with no bra.  She looked SO sexy, I was instantly hard.  The shirt showed off her extremely hot stomach in which you can still see at times her six pack – or at least a four pack on a bad day.   Lori's dirty blond, somewhat curly hair was done as she usually does it and her makeup, though less than she’d wear for going out at night, was still perfect and brought out her beautiful blue eyes.  Her mischievous smile was incredible as well, she had a real twinkle in her eye and you could tell she was so excited.   She always has that bit of a naughty, but innocent smile when she texts her boyfriend, but this time she seemed to be smiling from ear to ear.  Maybe it’s because  this visit was totally unexpected, or maybe because she had never had a lunch time quicky before.

Within ten minutes Mike was knocking at the door and Lori answered it, standing in her extremely hot outfit.   Mikes eyes did pretty much what mine did when he saw her, as did his cock.  They both hugged and kissed passionately for a few minutes – and finally stopped long enough for Mike to acknowledge me sitting across the room on the couch.  I said hi and half waved, but by then his attention was back on my wife as they headed upstairs.

Lori grabbed Mike’s hand and led him up the stairs to the master bedroom.  A minute later I walked over toward the stairs and heard the door close.   “Hey, no closing the door on me!” I said.  Lori opened it slightly and said “sorry”,  knowing that I love to listen.   Immediately I could hear his jeans and belt drop to the floor.  I could hear passionate kissing and the soft moaning sound Lori makes when she’s incredibly turned on and her body is being kissed and rubbed.  I was still downstairs and so wanted to watch them make love, but I also hate feeling like I’m invading their privacy.  Both have told me many times they don’t care if I watch, but I know it’s not 100% true. Mike prefers to have Lori alone and all to himself and I think Lori is leaning that way as well. They have had one afternoon of alone time and I think since that time Lori does really like and want to be alone with Mike.  She just doesn’t tell me this (well at least not yet).

I carefully snuck up the stairs and peeked around the corner into the room.  I guess my desire to watch outweighed my guilt of invading their privacy.  I already knew what they were doing from Lori's moaning as well as his moaning and the rhythmic thump, thump, thump of the bed hitting the wall.  Lori was on all fours and Mike was inside her from behind.  His hands were all over her ass as he fucked her hard from behind.  I could see his cock going in and out of her perfectly hairless pussy.  His hands rubbed and grabbed Lori's perfect heart shaped ass and ran over her back which angled down beautifully.  Mike loves having Lori put her chest and face down close to the bed.  I’m not sure I’ve ever actually seen (and fucked) my wife in this position before, I can only imagine it’s incredible.  What I wouldn’t give to be fucking her right at this moment. 

Lori continued to gasp as he fucked her hard.  She'ss told me he’s quite big, which I could see. Sometimes she has a hard time taking him, but she always says she wants so badly to take him all for as long as he wants and as hard as he wants.  This also blows my mind, knowing she most definitely hasn’t wanted to take me like that.  Maybe he was hurting her some or maybe she just wanted to kiss him, but she picked her body from the waist up off the bed, careful not to let his cock slip out of her pussy and Mike wrapped his arms around her holding her up against him, holding her perfect tits in his hands.   Lori turned her head to the side and their lips met in an incredibly passionate kiss before she fell back to all fours and Mike began pounding away again.  

Mike was on a mission and Lori was in ecstasy.  It seemed as if he’d complete his mission with no problem.  Within minutes his face tightened and his moans became louder and louder until he let out a long and loud moan.   He held Lori tight and pushed into her as he came deep into her pussy.  He had beaten his goal by at least five minutes.

Lori held still as Mike continued to slow his pace to nothing, each slow thrust shooting more cum into my wife’s pussy until he had exhausted his supply.   When he finally stopped moving, both just held their position.   Finally Mike pulled out, spilling quite a bit of cum onto the bed as Lori ran to the bathroom to try to not make too much of a mess.  I guess she didn’t mind too much that they just made a huge mess, she actually laughed and said it was OK since it was my side of the bed.

This was probably only the second or third time Mike had cum inside her.  They both fucked without a condom from the second time they were together. Cumming inside her however was somewhat new.  Two days before in a local hotel room, they both had finally been able to be completely alone and that day Lori told him to cum inside her.  I have to take some credit for this, I had been egging her on to have him cum inside her and telling her I want to see a creampie sometime soon.  So now Mike  cums inside her every time they fuck.  I have to admit, I LOVE watching him cum inside her.  It blows my mind that she loves him cumming inside her especially since it's something she doesn’t want me to do.  She says she lets him because he’s fixed, however I think she just loves him cumming inside her period!  She is beyond her prime baby making years and the odds of her getting pregnant are almost zero, so I definitely think him being fixed or me not being fixed has very little to do with it.

As they started to get dressed, I snuck back down stairs to my laptop and pretended to be working. Within minutes both came down again.  I congratulated Mike on how quickly he came, which I had my doubts that he could  considering he usually lasts for hours.   

Mike kissed Lori and left almost as quickly as he got here.   Lori turned to me with a big smile and walked to the couch where I was sitting and asked if I had watched.  I told her I did a bit and listened and that I was incredibly horny because of it.   I couldn’t take it any longer and I told her to stand and drop her hot pink short shorts,  I wanted to lick her.   She was definitely up for it since she hadn’t come yet.   I pulled down her shorts and she laid back on the couch.  I proceeded to bury my face into her pussy licking her clit which was incredibly swollen, more swollen than I had seen it in ages.  I licked down into her pussy and got a small but nice mouthful of Mike’s cum.  I had fantasized for so long about doing this and couldn’t believe I was actually licking cum out of her pussy.  Lori was a little grossed out by my licking her pussy which still had some of Mike’s cum in it, but I was loving it.  I licked her pussy for a few minutes until she asked me to grab her toy.   I ran up and grabbed her vibrator and returned in a matter of seconds.  I sat next to her and stroked my hard cock as she used her toy on her pussy.  We both talked about how incredibly hot that was, how much I love him cumming in her, and how much she loves fucking him.   Within minutes we both came and laid there for a few minutes catching our breath.

It was less than a half hour before we had washed up and started back to work, not saying much, as if this was a typical work day.  I’m sure we were both still thinking about what had just happened and not really paying attention to work.  I know I was, if Lori was she wasn’t really showing it. Either way, it was definitely anything but a typical Monday.  I’m hoping however that it does become typical.  I would love to lick her pussy on a daily basis after it was just fucked hard by her boyfriend.

Unfortunately or maybe fortunately, it wouldn’t be long after licking her pussy that day that I would no longer be allowed to lick her pussy, or fuck her, or lick her nipples or make love to her in any way.  Pretty much right after that afternoon, she decided to save herself for Mike.  I suspect I egged her on about this as well and I’m not sure why, other than it turns me on like crazy.  I guess this could be considered a perfect example of “be careful for what you wish for”, but the next couple weeks I could only stroke myself and get off while she told me how hot she was for Mike, and how she no longer wanted sex with me.    This was my first time being denied sex because Lori was so into her boyfriend.   It lasted a number of weeks and then something did change, which is another story for another entry.