AFF

We, or should I say she has met many differnt guys over the past few years.  Tonight she actually said "don't tell me the number".  I think she's a little embarassed ... lets say it's over twenty.  BUT, some were just one time playing and not actually making love.  Other's have been many times and starts of long term relationships (that for one reason or another fell through).  At this point, it doesn't seem to be important - I used to write every guy down and what happened and how many times they did it, etc.   Not anymore.  At this point, we're just looking for that one perfect guy for her, and I think right now - she has two guys who are both great for her,  one is a real fun single guy who can hang and date her (and wants to), the other is married but the passion is great and sex has been probably the best she ever had.   Both long stories that will be written about later ...

BUT the point of this article is we met both of these current guys on AFF.  (Adult Friend Finder)   She hasn't met everyone on AFF, she's met some guys at a bar - I'd say at least five or six we didn't meet on AFF, but the bulk are from AFF.   Ultimately we've had GREAT luck with AFF.  Most likely because we're extremely picky and I do a LOT of screening of anyone and everyone that writes us.   We don't meet with any intention of anything happening.  We actually tell people most likely nothing will happen.  If they're not cool with that, it's a good reason right off the bat to rule them out.  She's not looking for booty calls.  She wants more than just to be at some guys beck and call.  I think she wants them to be at HER beck and call AND wants them to hit on her and flirt and court and so on so forth.

One thing that is great about AFF is the amature videos.  If you're a fan of hotwife/cuckold videos it's a GREAT source of real video's.  Well worth the price of the membership. 

It took some time to get Lori to sit and watch video's with me and go through profiles and decide who to meet but eventually we started sitting and checking out profiles together.   Almost none of them she is interested, but occasionally someone will write that she thinks is not only hot, but sounds normal and classy.

We've looked at other sites but we haven't really found anything that seems to work for us like AFF.

I guess since we're looking for guys then it works for us, we hear that most of the women are fake, but we have no experience with that.  We've met a few couples from AFF, and they've been great.  Ultimately though, all the guys who have been hot passionate affairs have been from AFF.   So, I guess we're good with giving AFF two thumbs up ... but I'm sure there are other great sites, we just never ventured beyond.

Here's our profile pic.  I'd do her!  (if she let me!) LOL! :)

-r-